You’ll need to purchase a sleeve of your choice to accompany

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Testers found it connected well with the Kiiroo Titan in that both devices delivered the same vibration patterns for a synchronized intimate experience. It seamlessly connects with video programming as well as 3D games available via the FeelConnect app. If you are missing penetration with your partner (whether that’s vaginal, anal or oral) this high-tech stroking machine is just about the closest experience you’ll get to the real thing. You’ll need to purchase a sleeve of your choice to accompany Kiiroo’s Keon machine, which is built with an ergonomic grip that allows users to seamlessly experience up to 230 strokes a minute.

I set it up next to my bed with the help of my girlfriend, who knows more about cables than I do. It was a full moon in Scorpio, the sign of sex, so I felt extra enthusiastic about giving it a go. Gigi Engle is a certified sex coach, educator, and writer living in Chicago. Customers have mixed opinions about the massager’s speed, with some appreciating the variable speed feature while others find the very low speed unsatisfactory. Customers have mixed opinions about the massager’s weight, with some appreciating that it’s light enough to handle with clients, while others find it slightly heavy.

But for the purposes of this article, let’s assume you just want to incorporate some basic balls-based pleasure into sex or masturbation and don’t know where to start. “With the balls being so intimidating, I find that simpler is better,” Zizelman points out. There’s a surprising number of toys that work well for precisely that purpose. While we love this surprisingly rumbly bullet all on its own, in this nifty set it’s packaged with two attachments that can turn it into either a vibrating cock ring or an ergonomic finger vibe. The kit gives you a lot of options for the price, especially since you can use this toy in so many varying ways.

This $7, highly textured option from Iroha is a great addition to your masturbation practice. Nestle the toy between your fingers with the petal-like indentations facing down. From there, you can stroke, encircle, or tap your clitoris, allowing your fingers and Plum to work as a team. What’s known as the G-spot or G-zone is most likely a small area of spongy tissue located near the front of the upper vaginal wall. Although its exact location is debated by researchers, it’s no secret that stimulating the area can feel fantastic.

The angled tip is good for targeted clitoral action, while the toy’s eight speeds and seven vibration patterns only add to the fun. Because vibrators are such a great way to up the pleasure factor, don’t let self-consciousness about using them get in the way of your fun. They can be an enjoyable component of your sex life — whether you’re by yourself or getting your buzz on with a partner. Plus, Weiss points out that people who ordinarily only have one orgasm at a time can often experience multiple orgasms with a vibrator. This attractive dual-ended rose toy is designed for blended orgasms.

The W500 model offers two different sized heads — because clitorises don’t come in one shape or size! — which is a nice upgrade but you’ve got to be willing to pay the price” (The Pleasure Chest, $220). No matter your tastes, there are many, many uses for remote-controlled sex toys —  from hands-free solo play or partnered activities (up close or long distance). To start, I stripped to my silk skivvies, keeping them on as a buffer just in case the vibrations from the wand were too intense. When they weren’t, I threw my underwear to the floor and reached for some water-based lubricant in my night table.

If you’re new to the party-for-one game, Alexandra Fine, sexologist and co-founder of Dame has a few pointers. “Imagine the sensations of all these different kinds of vibrators.” She adds that if the sensation sounds like something you would like, your body will tell you. “Launched earlier this year, OhMiBod’s Lovelife Rev was designed with accessibility in mind. Its ergonomic design and large button are easier to grip than most vibes.” The easy-to-grip ergonomic design means all of your attention can go to getting off.

The fixed tail keeps it in just the right place and at just the right angle for the kind of O’s you really deserve. “Solo play allows for leaning into pleasure without having to think about anything else. It’s a good opportunity to find out for yourself what your pleasure potential is and how you get there. This can be really empowering,” explains Rachel Zar, LMFT, CST, a relationship and sex therapist at Spark Chicago Therapy and Northwestern Medicine Center for Sexual Medicine & Menopause. All the tone in the world doesn’t mean much if a guitar plays like a log.

With an insertable length of 5.5 inches and a total length of 7.3 inches, the Enigma Double Sonic is designed to reach deep within , stimulating areas that other toys might miss. The body-safe silicone exterior ensures a luxurious feel against the skin, while the USB rechargeable battery means you’ll never be caught short of power when the mood strikes. Are you trying to reproduce a specific feeling (intercourse? a blow job?), or are you seeking a totally new sensation like vibration or texture? Do you prefer the control of holding the toy, or do you want a toy that leaves you hands-free?

Hermann Rorschach might have told me I’m more inclined to see and feel these likenesses in the Connaisseur MJ (I’m genuinely captivated by the beauty of Rickenbackers and Martins). But style is a big part of what sets the Connaisseur MJ apart vibrator, and you don’t need an inkblot test to know that the Godin Connaisseur MJ is a handsome, well-built, and fine-playing flattop. You can improvise your own sleeve by finding a cylinder of some kind that fits comfortably on your penis (toilet paper rolls are a common choice) and then lining it with a material of your choice. Some people use spongy materials for the lining, some use latex gloves, etc. Some folks prefer to skip the more involved sleeves and use a sock or banana peel instead.